Where do I buy this stuff?

A few months ago I got a question from reader Barny ardpimp in relation to my favorite toys list. His  question was simple: “I like your list but where the heck are you buying these toys?”

Well Barny (and any other reader with the same question), these are the places I normally buy my toys from. If there is any exclusive line to these stores, I will write which products are exclusive to that store.

Disclaimer: I signed as an affiliate for Fleshlight, ToyDemon, Kanojo Toys, and Extreme Restraints. That means they give me a sales commission every time a reader from the blog clicks on a link on MY websites and makes a purchase. IT DOES NOT COST YOU A PENNY! You get the same low price, same offers, same customer service as any other client (myself included), but you are helping ME to cover the costs of running the blog and the website.

I signed with these companies because I PURCHASE from them and can vouch for their excellent customer service!


Although Fleshlights are available in the majority of sex toys retailers, I prefer to buy my Fleshlights from the source: Fleshlight.com 

Why? Very simple: signature textures are only available through their website. You can buy the FL Girls vaginas everywhere, but you will get the standard Lotus texture. If you want the crazy signature textures, Fleshlight.com  is the place to go. Also, you avoid being ripped off with copies, they have exclusive special offers, and great customer service.

Perks: Free shipping for orders above $60 (continental USA only) , special sales for Facebook and Twitter followers, blog offers, user forum.

Shipping: UPS

Japanese toys

I buy most of my Japanese toys from two US retailers: ToyDemon.com and QueenCatAdultToys.com.


Why? ToyDemon is the big kahuna for Japanese sex toys and movies in the United States. They bring products from all the major toy companies like Tenga, ToysHeart, Magic Eyes, and even Fleshlight.They also carry toy lines for women and even lingerie at affordable prices.

Perks: Free shipping for orders above $50 (continental USA only) , special sales for e-mail, Facebook and Twitter followers, blog offers, user forum.

Shipping: FedEx / FedEx SmartPost

QueenCatAdultToys.com. (Succubus, Venus, Lillith, Busty Ai-Chan, Quty Tits)

Why? QueenCat is a smaller store than ToyDemon, but they pack a heavy punch. They are the USA distributors for all ToMax products – great product lines including the Succubus, Lillith, and Venus masturbators, and the best breast toy in the market the Busty ai-Chan – so they are your choice to get these excellent toys.

They also carry toys from known Japanese companies like Tenga, ToysHeart, and MagicEyes. Their selection is smaller than ToyDemon, but Queen Cat only sells the best toys from Japan (and it doesn’t hurt that they tend to have low prices). They also carry female toys, inflatable dolls and other fun items.

Think of them as a Biggest Hits compilation of Japanese Sex Toys.

Perks: Exclusive toys in the USA, low prices.

Shipping: USPS

Kanojo Toys (Japan)

Why? Kanojo is the perfect source for those toys from crazy Japan that never make it to the USA. Shipping from Japan, their prices are higher, but you will find stuff that American stores will never bring here.

Perks: Regular discounts codes. Fast and secure shipping from Japan.

Shipping: EMS / DHL

American toys (General)

I also buy toys in the widely known websites like:

Adam & Eve –  Wide selection on simpler and sometimes low quality toys. They have great offers and gifts with every order though…

Pink Cherry – This Canadian store had become one of my favorite places thanks to their weekly sales. Their selection is similar to Adam and Eve, but you can find hidden gems in their weekly clearance deals. For example, I bought my Inked Sophia doll here for $49 – a doll you cannot find below $125 anywhere else.

E-bay – Nothing beats e-bay for unique items. Be that item novelleco’s silicone oral mannequins (the best oral sex doll you are going to find on the web), YouCups masturbators, discounted sex dolls, accessories for the goth / S&M lover in you, or costumes lots for your erotic cosplay (or doll dressing). If you think it, it’s on e-bay.

Amazon – Yep, the guys that sell you books also sell sex toys. Their selection is mostly similar to what you will find on Adam & Eve, but with better prices and the reliability behind the Amazon name.

Extreme Restraints – If you are on the kinkier side, this is your store. They sell everything for the BDSM enthusiast and a few interesting items for people like me interested in “vanilla” bondage and e-stim. Even if you are not interested in bondage or S&M, their clearance section is worth a look for their selection and good prices.

That’s it – those are the places where I buy. I will update the page if I find any other place with good stuff I like.


3 thoughts on “Where do I buy this stuff?”

  1. Bad news: The web page for Queen Cat Adult Toys now says: “This store is closed permanently.” I left a message on tomax-usa.com asking if their was another way to buy TOMAX products, but it’s been six days and I haven’t received a reply. So I did some searching and found this page: http://tomax.jp/dealer.html The only other TOMAX dealer listed was a Japanese company, and trying to access their web site results in an “access prohibited” error.

    Hard as it is to believe given the quality of their products, I have to conclude that TOMAX has gone out of business and taken their dealers with them. That would mean that the tomax-usa and tomax.jp web sites are abandoned and will just sit there until the web service providers notice they aren’t being paid and delete them. Goodbye Queen Cat and TOMAX.

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